Open Letter to Bec Kemp (aka Becky S. Kemp) of Rockland, Maine

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Bec Kemp, you have co-opted, stolen (in fact if not law), destroyed and/or deleted the hard work, creative output and efforts of scores and scores of people… 

Altogether a huge amount of productivity, creativity and shared efforts you did not even slightly participate in, and to which you contributed exactly and absolutely nothing, zero, zilch…    

And in fact it is extremely likely that you were pretty much ignorant of most of what it took to make the group into what it had and was becoming more and more…

You have also, in the process of your theft of other people’s work and creativity, broken up and essentially destroyed what had become a continually growing and naturally evolving network of connections, discussion, shared understandings, inspired discovery and meaningful engagement between hundreds if not thousands of people…  All of your hijacking actions additionally witnessed and disparaged by more thousands… 

But you saw none of what I am describing and that was actually happening, did you…?  All you were ever able to see was an extremely active group with a large and rapidly growing membership, a group centered around a famous person’s words and writings who you admired and wanted to somehow emulate…  

We were a group for which you had done absolutely nothing to help make it into what it was, all the while that it was almost daily at this point becoming ever more and more so…

Instead, because of mere happenstance and some FB circumstances and rules, you realized that you could get away with claiming our group as a work of “your own,” and tell all your friends, relatives and associates what you had done… While you viciously, wantonly, without any recognition, understanding, thought or consideration for what was actually happening in the group, hijacked and took it over as “belonging to you,” and as something “you” “created”

One thing you have for sure done in the process is reveal a rather large, malformed, ill-conceived and sorely wounded ego, an ego that was clearly looking for a “different,” “larger,” seemingly “better” image or identity to claim for her “self,” that she could “be,” and display to all her friends, family, neighbors and associates…  

There is a saying, originally from the Middle East– “When a pickpocket sees a saint, all (s)he sees are pockets…”

All of your actual actions and many of your words, as the hijack unfolded, are described and documented elsewhere on this site… Many additional screenshots are also uploaded to this website for possible later use…  Click any of the blue links on this page to see just some of it… Like here

Several dozen additional screen shots, all waiting to come live as needed… Altogether revealing the play of your activities, your belligerent messaging, and especially including many screenshots of some of your rather aggressive, hard held and virulently defended ignorance, from your very own public FB page, over time… Most taken before you saw an earlier post on this site that includes an image of the QR code invitation you extended to your friends to join “your group,” which prompted you to clean up your public facing FB page… 

Altogether revealing a person deeply lost in some rather extreme arrogance, sociopathy and narcissism, who did not care even the slightest about what was actually happening in a group she hijacked away from all the many members it actually belongs to, people who worked long and hard together, to make our group into what it had become…  

Simply because you could…  You then made two people, Allyson Henson and David Weiner, administrator and moderator of the group, individuals who were not ever members of the group until AFTER your hijacking was complete…

There are scores and scores and even hundreds of witnesses to all this of course, including dozens and dozens of people you have forced out, removing and blocking them from the group, and additionally people who you have messaged with your lies and deceptions… 

For example here…   The individual you are messaging is blanked out to prevent you from causing them any further grief, the way you have caused grief for so many others…  

And YET you had this to say to me on the afternoon of the very same day you later hijacked the group… This was your very first messaging back to me ever, and even though I had by then messaged you countless times over the previous year, trying to connect, or at the very least get some response from you…   

So much incredible self-delusion that you actually believed you could take over the group and ALL that it had become, actually claim to be its creator, and do what ever you pleased with it, already at this point deleting highly active posts, conversations and comments, and removing extremely active and highly respected members you seemingly didn’t like, or perhaps didn’t “think” made “sense” to you…   And yet all at the same time you apparently actually also really “thought” you could keep me doing the work…   

Once it was made clear to you, in our subsequent short lived exchange, that wasn’t going to happen, you blocked me on Messenger and removed and blocked me from the group, along with removing and blocking myriad other additional members who were highly active…

And don’t forget all the many thousands of people who know that they never EVER saw you participating in the group before you hijacked it, and who were instead seeing the moderators, administrators and all the many frequent posters, pre-approved members and commenters you have removed and blocked from the group, all together active and involved in myriad discussions, interactions, exchanges and engagements, in responsible, thoughtful and honest ways, pretty nearly every hour of the day, it had by then become, as well as for the whole prior two plus years…

As said all of your hijacking actions and past behavior is described in detail in other posts on this site, including “how” you were able to get away with it under Facebook structures and mechanisms, no matter how socially, morally and unconscionably wrong and bankrupt all your actions in these regards have been, and will continue to be for as long as they prevail.…

What you have done is no different than the actions and behavior of so many of the people you “profess” to be against…  And in the same ways as they, you make stuff up to excuse and explain away actions and behavior that on a much smaller scale is no less virulent and despicable as theirs…  

Large scale or minuscule scale, egregious lies, dishonesty and rapacious behavior are egregious lies, dishonesty and rapacious behavior, whether they be Donald J. Trump’s egregious lies, dishonesty and rapacious behavior or Becky S. Kemp’s egregious lies, dishonesty and rapacious behavior…

There is nothing on this website that is not factually true, whether it be your actions and behavior, my actions, other people’s actions, the ways that a lot of this works, or my strong feelings and thoughts about your behavior and actions…

All of this is pretty near as easy as breathing for me, Bec, writing, building high-end websites, hosting them in my own hosting accounts, and making sites very findable, fast and secure… It is my hobby for a very long time now, as well as being a way to bring in a bit of extra income… And most of all I really enjoy doing it… 

As it presently is, pretty much any Google search for you and HCR, or for you and a whole bunch of terms related to any of this, brings you and all this up on the first page and at the top of the first page…  Even just searching for your name, Bec Kemp, turns all this up in the middle of the second page…   And it is only going to get more and more so over time… Your name and ill deeds higher and higher in Google searches…  And with more and more terms slowly being added for Google, to bring all of it up in more and more ways, contexts and circumstances…

This open letter post to you will now also begin to show and rise up in Google searches… In the website world it is altogether called SEO, and I’m pretty good at it…

There is also a way I can make access to this website and all you’ve done become more associated with your actual name and town, and reach more directly the eyes of your relatives, friends and associates as well as neighbors there in Rockland, population 7000…  It will take me just a little more effort than breathing, so to speak, but not a whole lot more…

When there is no other way of confronting bad, wrong and destructive behavior, outing it becomes the last recourse…  Feminist women in the 1980s mastered this approach in my old home town of Santa Cruz, CA, with me and many others helping them… In those circumstances, and because there was no other recourse possible, it was about outing men who were behaving rather badly towards women…

Let’s be clear… Everything regarding you and what you have done with the group can disappear from the internet rather quickly, simply by your going to the group admin area, unblocking me, letting me know this has happened on this page via a comment, or via this site’s Contact page, accepting my joining the group, removing any other admins, inviting me to be an admin, and then AFTER I have accepted the admin position removing yourself as admin (or from the group) via the three dots next to your name in the Admins and moderators section under the Members tab…  

If this happens the group becomes free floating, no longer attached to your FB account or subject to anyone’s else’s account, with one admin for a second start, so to speak, myself…  Altogether simple, quick and easy…

If that were to happen what you have done can disappear from the internet and this site can return to what it was originally built to be, a simple support site for our group…

As I post this you have, in just the last three weeks, visited this site exactly 31 times, averaging more than one visit per day and missing only two days here very recently…  I can see what hour of the day and even which pages are visited…  And also the technology, hardware, browsers and screen resolutions being used…  I have software connecting into my pro account with Google that reports all it in the admin area of this website, including IP addresses… It even keeps logs and tracks and charts it all in various ways… 

You have done a HUGE wrong, Bec…  But you can undo and correct it if you wish, realize and learn from your mistakes, including some of the ways you mistook me, and move on…  

Otherwise, and for as long as what you have done remains not undone, this website and all on it will also remain, and continue to grow and climb higher in Google page rank ratings…  It costs me nothing and takes minuscule time and virtually no effort to keep this site going, for multiple years even, adding more to it as called for, and all the while nudging it and all things on it relating to you higher and wider in Google search page rankings… 

And it may be I will be moved to do even more, and bring all this into some more immediate and direct attention of various aggregates of people in your more personal and direct life and worlds… 

No knowing…

If you want to begin undoing what you have done and making things right you may also contact me via john@unofficialhcr.com

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